May 23, 2025
Why you’re powerless to ignore a crying baby
Every wail and wimper of a baby's cry is carefully tuned to spark a reaction from nearby adults.
Every wail and wimper of a baby’s cry is carefully tuned to spark a reaction from nearby adults.

Most of us can’t ignore a baby’s cry. We can choose not to respond, but those shattering notes will infiltrate our noggins no matter what. The wail (however irritating it might be) sparks a response that ensures one thing: survival. Data suggests that the noise tips off parents more than childless adults—and women more than men—but a ­baby’s screech is tuned to trigger every ­grown-up. Each moment of screaming contains crucial information about a child’s level of distress. Throughout the seven seconds of audio below, acoustic clues in the sound waves signal just how urgently a ­kiddo needs help.

Jacques Kleynhans illustration
Some sounds created by crying babies are used to attract attention or signal they are in need.

1. Attracting Attention

During late pregnancy and following birth, caregivers produce elevated levels of prolactin and oxytocin, which prime their ears to be especially sensitive to the frequency range of a newborn’s cries. These hormones also promote nurturing behaviors—like physically comforting the kid—and boost positive feelings that can help keep new moms and dads from throwing their hands up in despair.

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